Tami, He is unavailable period. I would never date a married man. He took me to fun places, great music, cozy surroundings. To me that, along with increasing months and years of time gone by, is a good indicator that they have worked enough stuff out that they are emotionally free to move on. Kids brought up in high conflict 2 parent homes do worse than kids raised in peaceful stable single parent households. My kid is at fault.
Awful how any addiction can destroy you.
You’re Dating a Married Man…Are You CRAZY?!
That is the primary reason the divorce rate is so high, since only unequals split apart. I do think there are several signs to look out for and there are excellent articles here by Evan and on Baggage Reclaim that list them. Video Games. A real relationship is often scarier than a fake one. I too have seen where some spouses will use an affair as a wedge to get themselves out of the marriage, since affairs tend to blow everything to hell.